BACK TO SCHOOL LIST: Essentials
for This School Year!
by Tamara Eaton
Summer is almost over and homeschooling parents everywhere are gathering
curriculum for the coming year. Catalogs are filled with items that promise to
bring success to your homeschool, things you don't dare skip...but don't
let the advertisements fool you, here are the only things you really DON'T
want to do without...
1. A Heart of Prayer
Not just prayer, but a vibrant, consistent relationship with the
Lord! He promises to give us wisdom, supply all our needs, and teach us His
ways, but in order to do that, we have to follow the principles set forth in
His Word and abide in Him.
"If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all
men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. But let him ask
in faith, nothing wavering." --James 1:5-6
"Pray without ceasing." --1 Thessalonians 5:17
"Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and
supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And
the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and
minds through Christ Jesus." --Philippians 4:6-7
2. A Heart of Obedience
God wants to establish His order in our homes --parents in obedience to
Him, and children in obedience to the parents and to God. Homeschooling
without divine order in the home can lead to chaos. Disobedient children,
disobedient parents --what a mess!
* Take time to train and teach your children consistently
to obey without whining and constant reminders.
* Submit yourselves each day to God
and determine to respond to situations as HE would have you respond instead of
yielding to the flesh.
* Be that godly example for your
children; sometimes the attitudes that distress us so in our children are
merely reflections of our own sins.
* Allow God to search your hearts and
His peace will reign in your home. What a difference it will make --you'll ALL
enjoy being together so much more!
"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will
flee from you. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you." --James
"Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well
pleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they
be discouraged." --Colossians 3:20-21
3. Commitment and Perseverance
Homeschoolers should count the cost; homeschooling takes time and patience.
Every single day isn't going to produce those golden educational triumphs
you read about in homeschool articles. Steady progress in learning is
encouraging but there are ebbs and flows to academic development just like in
physical development. Children grow and learn at different paces --don't be
discouraged when some things take longer to grasp than you'd expected.
* Maintain a balanced perspective by
looking at what you're accomplishing over the period of a week or month
instead of each day.
* Pace yourself so neither you nor
your children burn out.
* Prayerfully determine both long-term
and short-term goals.
"And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall
reap, if we faint not." --Galatians 6:9
4. A Joyful Heart
To be joyful is a decision we must make each day. Our joy
can't be based merely upon our outward circumstances but it should be based
upon Whom we know: Jesus Christ --Who has all our circumstances under
control! Paul knew what it was like to be joyful in the face of adversity.
[See "None of These Things Move Me"] We can
have joy at ALL times simply because we know and trust Jesus.
Mothers especially have the opportunity to set the tone and atmosphere
for the home --wouldn't you rather live in a joyful home than a
discouraging, depressing home? If we allow the enemy to rob us of our joy, we
allow him to rob of us our strength. We grow weary, depressed and the children
suffer, too. Teaching becomes a chore instead of a privilege and learning
becomes dull and dreary for all. If you fall into this snare, confess your
sin to the Lord, get into His Word, start praising Him and allow Him to
refresh you by His Holy Spirit!
"The joy of the LORD is your strength." --Nehemiah 8:10
"But let all those that put their trust in thee rejoice: let them
ever shout for joy, because thou defendest them: let them also that love thy
name be joyful in thee." --Psalm 5:11
5. A Heart of Faith
Oh how we need faith! Faith in the LORD --that He will bless the
homeschooling and discipling of our children. He has plans for each one --He
knows their needs and future and promises to give us wisdom to equip them if
we will trust Him! Our own strength and wisdom will always fall short but
God's strength and wisdom will never fail. Tap into His promises today
--ask Him and have faith that He will provide!
Someone once described faith as simply believing God will do what He
said He would do in His Word. No situation is too minor for Him to care
about --whether you need wisdom in selecting the proper curriculum for your
child or in creating a workable schedule for your day, or even in learning how
to teach your child a new concept. Look to God to provide these answers and
direct your steps. You'll be amazed at how He answers once you begin
expecting Him to actually respond to your prayers!
"Hitherto have ye asked nothing in my name: ask, and ye shall
receive, that your joy may be full." --John 16:24
"If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye
will, and it shall be done unto you." --John 15:7
"Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering;
(for he is faithful that promised..." --Hebrews 10:23
"But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that
cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that
diligently seek him." --Hebrews 11:6
None of these "essentials" for this school year can be found
apart from Jesus Christ. He has already purchased all of this for you
through His shed blood on the cross. If you have been taking Him for granted
or leaving Him out of your "back to school" plans, won't you take
time to seek His face today? He promises to meet with you, if you will but
seek Him with your whole heart. Take time to discover His plans for your
family and put them into practice this year --the benefits reaped will be of
"Blessed are they that keep his testimonies, and that seek him with
the whole heart." --Psalm 119:2
"Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and
I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall
search for me with all your heart." --Jeremiah 29:12-13
"Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all
that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us..." --Ephesians
[Note--If you don't know the Lord in a personal, saving way--find out how
you can be set free from all condemnation and receive Eternal life, as well as
His daily help and guidance! (Knowing God)
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